In the 21st century, there are few technologies that match the smartphone. With the world at our fingertips, it seems that there are few limits on what we can learn and achieve – the sheer amount of knowledge, communication, and entertainment available online is staggering. However, as many of us have experienced, the downside of this great tool is distraction and information overload, particularly from the parts of our lives which depend upon our dedicated attention – our family and friends.There is only so much our brains can handle at once, and yet the goal of social media is our unceasing attention and engagement. Powerful algorithms curate content which makes us feel as though our desires are uncannily met, if not influenced without our prior knowledge or consent. Setting aside the powerful rewards systems vying for our attention, smartphones also absorb our time because of the digital alternatives they offer to analog utilities, such as real life books and notebooks, music libraries, calendars, and maps. Though the smartphone lightens our practical load in many ways, it increases social dysfunction in real life.
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Take Stock of Your Friendships
Friendship, and our need for it, is as ancient as humanity itself. The ancient Mesopotamian Epic of Gilgamesh, written sometime between 2100 and 1200 BC, poignantly illustrates how love in friendship even transcends death. Though the gods condemn Enkidu to death in retaliation for killing the Bull of Heaven, his loss spurs Gilgamesh on the perilous journey to discovering eternal life. The poem illustrates the power of friendship to transform one’s very person, and set one on the road to a life previously unimaginable. In his classic work The Four Loves, C.S. Lewis describes true friendship as “unnecessary, like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself.”
Young Adult Loneliness
According to the Wall Street Journal, a survey conducted by Harvard’s Graduate School of Education (GSE) in October found that nearly one-third of 950 respondents reported frequent loneliness. Young people and mothers felt especially isolated, feeling “overworked” and disconnected from their support systems. It goes without saying that the elderly are experiencing the most isolation, as their would-be visitors stay away for fear of passing on the dreaded virus. However, at a time when they are supposed to be living “life to the fullest,” young people feel at a loss for connection – and with major consequences, should they cave in to their loneliness.