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When Feminism Loses Itself

When Feminism Loses Itself

The girlboss has had her reign, and today she is usurped by a new queen: the bimbo. So claims a New York Times opinion essay, which catapulted the relatively obscure profile of various self-proclaimed “Bimbos of TikTok” into the national spotlight. These new pink-clad, scantily-dressed, dumb-playing personalities claim they are enlisting this traditional put-down for an attractive, dumb woman for the feminist cause – but what does this “new age of bimbofication,” with its emphasis on pink, sparkles, and overexposure have to do with women? Why have internet feminists eagerly exchanged the serious strivings of the girlboss for the bimbo in her vapid performance of hyperfemininity?

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Louise Perry and the Pro-Family Key to Pro-Life

Louise Perry and the Pro-Family Key to Pro-Life

Nearly a decade after Princeton alumna and mom Susan Patton was skewered for urging young women at her alma mater to find husbands before graduation, UK feminist Louise Perry is encouraging young women to get married and stay married against the statistical odds of divorce and feminist animus. “Feminist analysis of marriage,” she writes, “sees it as a method used by men to control female sexuality. And it does do that, but that was never its sole function. There is also a protective function to marriage, but it makes sense only when understood in relation to children.” Perry has no illusions about the limitations of marriage in solving all social ills, but it is precisely her observation that marriage has succeeded in “complex societies” such as in the West that she places her confidence in its ability to improve conditions for women and children. 

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The Family Teaches Us to Care

The Family Teaches Us to Care

These days we hear a lot about “care.” Childcare. Care infrastructure. Caring for our planet. Caring for the elderly. Mental healthcare. Self-care. The fact that we speak so endlessly and passionately about the need for more care, or preserving care, in our world tells us a lot about our society. We all want to care and be cared for, yet something about our culture makes us feel as though it’s lacking. Why – when so many are working overtime to care for each other, for their families and friends, considering policy questions and private programs – do we feel as though no one cares enough?

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What Makes a Graduate?

What Makes a Graduate?

The month of May marks new beginnings for high school and college students as they celebrate commencement ceremonies and next steps in education or career. For parents, grandparents, and former teachers, the proud moment of witnessing one’s child transform into an independent adult brings back early memories of late nights and hard days, of help with homework and shuttling to after-school activities. It’s no secret that good citizens are made, not born – and the family is the place where first principles about good citizenship, what it means to love, learn, and serve, are learned. Given the benefits of family stability on a child’s overall wellbeing, we’d like to focus on the ways that family structure and relationships make a graduate.

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Most Single Mothers Aren’t So By Choice

Most Single Mothers Aren’t So By Choice

Recently, new findings from the Pew Research Center showed that the share of Americans who view single motherhood and cohabitation as negative for society rose significantly from 2018 to 2021. Meanwhile, various media, news, and entertainment outlets still sell “single motherhood by choice” as empowerment and disdain preferences for the traditional family structure as archaic or misogynistic. Why are Americans resisting this narrative and cementing their views that children need both mothers and fathers?

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Parents Anticipating the Metaversity

Parents Anticipating the Metaversity

Much has been made of higher education in recent years – whether about safe spaces or snowflakes. Most critics of today’s campus climate point out the undue influence of social justice on college life, recognizing that universities have often exchanged intellectual rigor with diversity, equity, and inclusion standards. Writing for the Claremont Institute’s American Mind, Max Eden argues that the cause of higher education’s decline is due to more than just the potency of bad ideas. For Eden, the university no longer forms students, but is itself formed by students into the image of the “metaversity,” an anti-institution comprised of social media, online forums, and the broader internet. If we are to salvage the university’s mission and students’ minds, then we will need to harness the power of the social internet in a way that inspires critical thought and meaningful conversation.

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The Rise of Workism

The Rise of Workism

Americans are known for having longer work hours than their Western European contemporaries. Numerous explanations have been offered and debated – from Europe’s “culture of leisure” and differing tax rates between the U.S. and Europe to European market regulations pushed by labor unions. Yet, the idea that America is a nation of “workaholics” seems to have been popularized in the early-to-mid 1960’s, when the word “workaholic” rose in usage dramatically even prior to the divergence between the U.S. workday and that of many European nations. By the mid-1960’s, with second wave feminism in full swing and over 2 million women on the pill, the professional workforce was expanding rapidly in size and competition. With more institutions open to women’s attendance, colleges increased their enrollment in anticipation of the next generation’s career pursuits.

Marriage for the Masses

Marriage for the Masses

The late Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks, in his remarks from the International Colloquium on “The Complementarity of Man and Woman” in 2014, beautifully stated the impact monogamy has had on the historical evolution of human rights:

What makes the emergence of monogamy unusual is that it is normally the case that the values of a society are those imposed on it by the ruling class. And the ruling class…stands to gain from promiscuity and polygamy, both of which multiply the chances of my genes being handed on to the next generation. From monogamy the rich and powerful lose and the poor and powerless gain. So the return of monogamy…was a real triumph for the equal dignity of all. Every bride and every groom are royalty; every home a palace when furnished with love.

Getting at the Roots of Child Sexualization

Getting at the Roots of Child Sexualization

Without the union of man and woman, society would cease to exist. Yes, a dystopian society like that of Aldous Huxley’s World State could use artificial wombs for reproduction, but a healthy democracy (one we’re apt to prefer) depends upon the mutual love and compromise of man and woman in lifelong marriage, and their willingness to set high personal standards for the good of their children.

Young Adult Loneliness

Young Adult Loneliness

According to the Wall Street Journal, a survey conducted by Harvard’s Graduate School of Education (GSE) in October found that nearly one-third of 950 respondents reported frequent loneliness. Young people and mothers felt especially isolated, feeling “overworked” and disconnected from their support systems. It goes without saying that the elderly are experiencing the most isolation, as their would-be visitors stay away for fear of passing on the dreaded virus. However, at a time when they are supposed to be living “life to the fullest,” young people feel at a loss for connection – and with major consequences, should they cave in to their loneliness.

Romney’s Family Security Act

Romney’s Family Security Act

Senator Mitt Romney’s recent proposal, the Family Security Act, aims to provide a dual benefit to families: a child allowance and a reformed Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC). With the goals of incentivizing marriage and family, it has received praise across the political spectrum for its promise to alleviate poverty while “swapping out some programs that benefited these families in the past, and also by discontinuing the federal subsidy for high taxes in New York and California.”

Quarter-Life Crisis

Quarter-Life Crisis

According to a staff writer for the Yale Daily News, it is now a “necessity” that students experience, at one point or another, “a quarter life crisis.” Recent college graduates, and even recent admits, would be familiar with the symptoms of what The Muse calls an “intense period of soul-searching and stress”: insecurity, loneliness, and aimlessness. While the phenomenon may sound overblown and dramatic, it does disclose some of the anxieties of a generation faced with an increasingly uncertain world, both socially and economically.

Girls’ and Women’s Sports

Girls’ and Women’s Sports

In June of 2020, the Supreme Court wrote for its majority opinion in Bostock v. Clayton County that Title IX’s prohibition against “discrimination on the basis of sex” covers “sexual orientation and gender identity.” On January 20, 2021, President Biden signed an executive order promising to combat discrimination on the basis of gender identity or sexual orientation, leaving agencies a mere 100 days to ensure that their policies prevent such. While Democratic politicians and transgender activists are celebrating, it is likely that young women and girls, especially those participating in competitive sports, will become guinea pigs for the new administration’s social experiment.

No More Self-Reliance

No More Self-Reliance

In his Inauguration Day speech, President Joe Biden preached the need for unity moving forward, saying without it, “there is no peace, only bitterness and fury; no progress, only exhausting outrage; no nation, only a state of chaos.” While most people desire and strive for unity, many of us continue to live along the lines of our national divisions. How did we get here? And how should we proceed in the years to come?

Abstinence, Monogamy, and the Pandemic

Abstinence, Monogamy, and the Pandemic

The onset of the coronavirus pandemic last year brought a number of major shifts to our daily lives. No more could we enter the grocery store without a mask, gather with family and friends, or even go to school. Plentiful changes made over the past year have left many to question casual sex – and to seriously wonder if or how they will meet, date, and marry. Life pre-pandemic presented its own difficulties when it came to finding the one. The decline of marriage and high rate of divorce, a myriad online dating options, the reality of casual sex, ghosting and other confusing practices, all offered temptations to give in to the no-strings attached mentality or abandon finding a mate altogether. However, as loneliness and polarization have afflicted our society over the past year, the pull toward deeper human relationships in the forms of companionship and community has grown ever stronger.

The Beauty of Gendered Language

The Beauty of Gendered Language

Mama. Mère. Ina. Mum.

Across every language, culture, and faith the world over, “mother” is a primal utterance. For many, it connotes a comforting presence, recalling the intimacy we experience in the loving in the arms of one who has given us life. We are connected with our mothers inside the womb and outside of it, so much so that most of us will call out for “mama” on our deathbed. This relationship between mother and child seems even miraculous; it transcends both time and generation – each child has a mother, and every mother was once a child herself. Thus, the word “mother” captures a beautiful truth about human beings – we are, by our very nature, always related to someone else. The transcendent relations of family are so important that we use words which not only connect us in intimacy, but recall us in fact. While the family we are born into does not ultimately define us, our relationships within it help orient us in the world beyond. Without words that ground us into the truth of our being, we can find ourselves unmoored, undefined, and unhappy.